My Daughter-in-Law Is 7 Months Pregnant, and My Son Is Having Affairs With Other Women, I’m Desperate

A 63-year-old woman wrote to us about her tough situation with her pregnant daughter-in-law and her son, who’s cheating on her. He’s been with other women, and he told his mom about it, putting her in a difficult spot. Now, she’s feeling torn and doesn’t know what to do.

The woman shared her absolutely mind-stirring story in a letter to our editorial.

A 63-year-old woman wrote to us about her difficult situation. Her son, who’s 30, has been married to his high school sweetheart, Olivia, for 5 years. Olivia is pregnant with twins and in a risky situation. Recently, the woman’s son confessed something shocking to her. He went out of state for his birthday with college friends, leaving his pregnant wife behind. The woman insisted he cancel the trip, but Olivia encouraged him to go. So, the woman convinced Olivia to stay with her instead.

The relationship between MIL and DIL are fabulous.

The woman continues her story, saying, “I really care about my daughter-in-law Olivia. She’s kind, respectful, and feels like my own daughter. We’ve bonded well since she started dating my son. We talk a lot and see each other often.”

The woman noticed something strange about her son’s behavior when he returned from his trip. She wrote, “When my son came back, he seemed different. He didn’t want any treats, avoided kissing Olivia, and gave her awkward hugs. He acted distant and slept in the guest room. When I asked him about it, he didn’t give clear answers.”

Later, Olivia shared more about her husband’s odd behavior. He refused her meals, stayed distant, and avoided physical contact. Then, her son came to her in tears, holding crumpled papers. He confessed to cheating on Olivia with many women and being diagnosed with HIV. Shocked, she asked why he didn’t tell Olivia. He begged her to keep it secret and let him stay with her to figure out what to do next.

The woman is totally desperate after her son made the confession.

The woman wrote, “I told him if he wouldn’t tell his wife, I would. He got angry, yelling and crying, accusing me of ruining his family. He said I’m favoring Olivia and trying to keep him from his kids. I had to ask a neighbor to help get him out of my house. Later, I found out the papers he brought were bank statements, not medical results. Now, I’m lost. I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I don’t know what to do. I’m worried about hurting Olivia and her twins by telling her. Maybe my son is right. Please help me find a way to handle this without causing too much damage.”